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Ethnicity. Chinese
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Thursday. 3.1.07 4:34 pm
watching: Bakumatsu Kikansetsu Irohanihoheto ep. 15
listening to: Tong Hua by Guang Liang
mood: frustrated

You know...you just can't please everybody.

For the first time today, my best friend and my boyfriend clashed head on. Funny thing is they both want me to do the same thing.

Ok, rewind a bit. My best friend has been pretty supportive of my relationship, though I know she doesn't really like my boyfriend (some old middle school grudge over a basketball match). And my boyfriend doesn't really mess in matters involving my friends . So no conflict so far.

But today, my boyfriend asked me to go to the movies on a date with him tomorrow. Of course, I said yes, but that wasn't the problem.

The problem is that a bit later, my best friend asked me to go hang out at her house and watch a movie tomorrow, because we haven't hung out together for awhile. I told her no, I'm sorry, but I have a date, blah blah...And she...sorta snapped.

She told me that I'm ditching her for a guy, and she's very touchy on this because her old best friend turned out to be a total slut. But I got a bit mad, and I was like "why?" and she got angrier, and then she drags me over to where my boyfriend and his friends hang out, and she asks him to cancel tomorrow's date. Totally embarrassing...especially because all his friends were watching.

And he got mad at her and told her that it was none of her business. And she said that it was her business. l was in shock or something, because I couldn't stop them. They were just arguing outside. It was scary.

Ever heard of being saved by the bell? Luckily lunch ended before things got too ugly, and I ran off to class. And I tried to avoid the issue for the rest of the day.

Now I feel really really bad, because I can't make both of them happy. I mean, yes, I wanna be all lovey-dovey with my boyfriend, but I don't want to fight with my best friend. I considered cancelling our date, but I think after that argument my boyfriend won't be happy. But if I don't I know my best friend will get mad at me. I don't know what to do........

EDIT: Ok, I sorta solved the problem. I'm going to sleep over at my best friend's place tomorrow. She doesn't sound so mad over the phone, but I never know...I hope it all works out... =/

Haha! You know.. you can not hang out with both of them and have some quality time on your own.
» Nuttz on 2007-03-02 01:15:22

Eh, always trying to do things to satisfy everybody and no one realizing that = anger at you. *sigh* I'm glad you worked out a compromise. ^-^ Though I wouldn't expect your best friend to be incredibly happy to see you tomorrrow, er, today? Heh. Have fun!
» Silver-dot- on 2007-03-02 08:58:08

Honestly I wouldn't have given into your best friend. You made plans with your boyfriend. It's one thing to make plans with her, but then cancel them because he asked you out, but that's not what happened. She was completely unreasonable and you giving in just shows with enough fuss she gets what she wants. Best friends don't do that. As a best friend she should have offered to hang out after your date ended or maybe the day after or something. She wouldn't like it if you dropped her for him so why should it be ok for you to drop your boyfriend for her?
» Katrina on 2007-03-02 12:36:29

hmm.. it's always hard to juggle ur time with bf and friends. i know some friends r sensitive of 'being dicth or abandon'. oh well let's just say it's opportunity cost.

» renaye on 2007-03-04 08:02:19

Hi Sylphie! Miss me? XD

About the case... Maybe you can say to her that your boyfriend asked you to go first? ^^;

» razzly on 2007-03-11 01:27:19

That's harsh.
Sylphie XDD. I haven't talked to you in a while :).

And yeap... you just can't please everyone. But I'm glad that things worked out for you in the end.
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